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David Libra

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 27, 2021 12:41 pm
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A few months ago, an acquaintance I really like started plugging a personal life coaching business. Soon after, another friend joined the Australian Communist Party and started posting annoying tankie memes. Today, I found out another friend is getting into creating and selling NFTs (please just look it up on Google and don't even think about asking me to explain) of self-abusing primates and asked me to follow his account on Twitter.

It's possible to be supportive of friends' choices without necessarily agreeing with every aspect of what they're doing, of course. But how do you maintain your friendship with somebody when the thing they're devoting their life to right now is objectively ridiculous?

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Dave The Man Scorpio



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PostPosted: Wed Oct 27, 2021 12:48 pm
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David wrote:
A few months ago, an acquaintance I really like started plugging a personal life coaching business. Soon after, another friend joined the Australian Communist Party and started posting annoying tankie memes. Today, I found out another friend is getting into creating and selling NFTs (please just look it up on Google and don't even think about asking me to explain) of self-abusing primates and asked me to follow his account on Twitter.

It's possible to be supportive of friends' choices without necessarily agreeing with every aspect of what they're doing, of course. But how do you maintain your friendship with somebody when the thing they're devoting their life to right now is objectively ridiculous?


Sounds like People who you don't want as Friends

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David Libra

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 27, 2021 12:54 pm
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I mean, look – I don't judge them, and it doesn't necessarily affect how I see them as people. If I were closer to them I might have counselled them not to go down these paths. But it does make any conversation that gets on to the respective topic super awkward, that's for sure!
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 27, 2021 2:22 pm
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David wrote:
A few months ago, an acquaintance I really like started plugging a personal life coaching business. Soon after, another friend joined the Australian Communist Party and started posting annoying tankie memes. Today, I found out another friend is getting into creating and selling NFTs (please just look it up on Google and don't even think about asking me to explain) of self-abusing primates and asked me to follow his account on Twitter.

It's possible to be supportive of friends' choices without necessarily agreeing with every aspect of what they're doing, of course. But how do you maintain your friendship with somebody when the thing they're devoting their life to right now is objectively ridiculous?


I don't understand NFT's in the first place, seems like a stupid way to spend money, but is there a market for pictures of self abusing primates? Shocked

As for the key question, why not as long as they aren't hurting anyone else? Let them have their beliefs as long as they are capable of holding a conversation on other topics. If they're like a born again Christian who can't stop trying to convince you, cut em loose but if they're able to accept you have zero interest and can we please talk about something else, sounds fine.

I mean, I have friends who are Labor party members. Razz Wink

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 27, 2021 2:51 pm
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i hate so called friends who shove their business down your throat, or their new age beliefs! cut em lose in less you really want/need them in your life!

as for the primates, id dob him in to somewhere, scumbags making money out of animals, you know whaere that leads, first its insects, then bigger animals then people. hes a jerk

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David Libra

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 27, 2021 4:26 pm
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I probably should have clarified, sorry – these are merely very simply drawn (like, MS Paint) cartoon characters. It's certainly tasteless, but not a police matter!

stui magpie wrote:
I mean, I have friends who are Labor party members. Razz Wink


Okay now that might be a bridge too far even for me. Laughing

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 27, 2021 5:17 pm
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I have a similar problem with friends that are Trump fans and anti-vaxxers. It's all good if we don't stray into that territory but unfortunately, people who are that way usually can't help but bring it up. Really is cult-like behaviour.
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yes i have a friend driving me nuts! but last walk she had finally taken her son to the doc and asked the question about herself. her minor heart murmor wont cut it, so next month she will get the new vaccine coming out! no idea if its any different, and i bet she doesnt have either, she just wont back down! i almost said for fuckssake just get 1, so by december you can enjoy all the nights out you want! Dining out with friends is her favourite thing!
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think positive wrote:
yes i have a friend driving me nuts! but last walk she had finally taken her son to the doc and asked the question about herself. her minor heart murmor wont cut it, so next month she will get the new vaccine coming out! no idea if its any different, and i bet she doesnt have either, she just wont back down! i almost said for fuckssake just get 1, so by december you can enjoy all the nights out you want! Dining out with friends is her favourite thing!


What New Vaccine?

1st I heard about it

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https://www.news.com.au/finance/business/other-industries/novavax-covid-vaccine-better-than-pfizer-coming-to-australia/news-story/4a528e0f6d9e7a0732488bd73412ad8c
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David Libra

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 28, 2021 10:24 pm
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Sounds great, but how many vaccines (and how many more doses) do we actually need? Laughing
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yeah thats wot i thought!!
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stui magpie Gemini

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PostPosted: Fri Oct 29, 2021 7:30 am
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I expect Dan to remove all restrictions when 99% of the population has had their 10th shot. Wink
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think positive wrote:
https://www.news.com.au/finance/business/other-industries/novavax-covid-vaccine-better-than-pfizer-coming-to-australia/news-story/4a528e0f6d9e7a0732488bd73412ad8c


That sounds Great when it pretty Much Guarantee you would not get sick of Covid

Will it be used as Booster?

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If it gets approved it'll be one of about 500 million vaccines available in the country and after this years complaining about a lack of vaccines, the whiners will move on to the massive waste of money spent on unnecessary vaccines that get thrown out...
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