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David Libra

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 1:27 am
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Wokko wrote:
David wrote:
Wokko wrote:
Sometimes you just have to accept that otherwise competent, intelligent people are $$%^%%$ evil.


Whether you like it or not, that's an anti-scientific claim. "Evil" is not a condition that actually exists beyond the realm of primitive superstition and tabloid headlines. You may as well say that they're possessed by demons.


evil
adjective
1. profoundly immoral and wicked.

not

evil
noun
1. profound immorality and wickedness, especially when regarded as a supernatural force.

May seem a bit of a quibble, but I'm not talking Evil as a manifestation of demonic entities but as a state of being a profoundly immoral and wicked person. Some people are just bad people. There is nothing redeeming about them, they are simply well, evil.

Why does the possibility of bad people that are beyond redemption and with no excuse for their behaviour make you so uncomfortable?

Also, why ignore everything else I've written and cherry pick a word that so obviously doesn't mean some malevolent force in the context I used it?


Your re-definition"profoundly immoral and wicked"is still completely nonsensical and unscientific. And this is not just a semantic quibble; it cuts to the very core of the discussion. Responses to criminal behaviour vary considerably depending on your views of human nature. For me, there are just people, and some need more help than others to function successfully in society. End of story.

Anyway, I'll just put this here for people to read:

http://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2014/nov/24/mother-charged-over-baby-in-drain-deserves-compassion

I'll admit that some of the discourse on this issue does seem to overlook the experience and personhood of the victimwould there be so much compassion if the child had been, say, five years older? But that gets us into very uncomfortable territory, and while some philosophers like Peter Singer want us to go there, I have a feeling that the rest of society would prefer to keep talking around it.

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 4:30 am
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Probably more compassion, 5 years of suffering what?

Point is David, she had choices, she could have just left the baby at the hospital. Her choice was despicable.

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 4:34 am
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I'm sure she would like to hear about that.
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 4:40 am
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HAL wrote:
I'm sure she would like to hear about that.


I'm sure she will

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 4:43 am
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stui magpie wrote:
Wokko wrote:
David wrote:
Wokko wrote:
Sometimes you just have to accept that otherwise competent, intelligent people are $$%^%%$ evil.


Whether you like it or not, that's an anti-scientific claim. "Evil" is not a condition that actually exists beyond the realm of primitive superstition and tabloid headlines. You may as well say that they're possessed by demons.


evil
adjective
1. profoundly immoral and wicked.

not

evil
noun
1. profound immorality and wickedness, especially when regarded as a supernatural force.

May seem a bit of a quibble, but I'm not talking Evil as a manifestation of demonic entities but as a state of being a profoundly immoral and wicked person. Some people are just bad people. There is nothing redeeming about them, they are simply well, evil.

Why does the possibility of bad people that are beyond redemption and with no excuse for their behaviour make you so uncomfortable?

Also, why ignore everything else I've written and cherry pick a word that so obviously doesn't mean some malevolent force in the context I used it?


I've had a senior mental health clinician make a similar observation to me once about a person who was basically offloaded into an inpatient unit by the Police and then broke lots of stuff.

The comment was a pretty simple summation of where this person sat mentally, "He's not mad, just bad"

Not everything needs to be over analysed, sometimes a turd is just a turd and all you find down the rabbit hole are rabbits.


Sounds like a kid who lived in the naughty corner, rather than getting a smack on the bum. Lack of discipline as a kid, teaches lack of respect for anyone else and thier property. Too many spoilt brats around

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 7:36 am
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None of us know what occurred apart from a mother trying to kill her baby.

None of us know what her mental state was at the time.

The ignorant use of terms like Wokko was using such as if she 's just using depression as an excuse, it makes him sick (yet another example of Wokko's attitude to women)...is not useful to apply to this person's situation.

Anyone's experience of depression (& there are many forms) is different.

There are many forms of depression if she had that. These include an agitated depression, psychotic depression, depression with psychotic features, amongst others.

None of us know if she is (in the simplistic use of the terms) bad or mad as Stui was saying: either or both of those

None of us know if she had say a psychotic depression where her will or choice was not free

None of us know if she was hearing command homicidal ideations as a result of post partum psychosis - more common than you might realise.

None of us know if she was perfectly sane & was utterly responsible for her actions.

None of us know if this was cultural / familial etc

This needs time to explore all of the evidence & she needs a longitudinal mental state examination & not simply a cross sectional assessment to shed light not perpetuate myths & not reflect prejudices

Having said that, hang her & hang her high.

Now, that Lindy Chamberlain was guilty I tell you. I knew straight away.

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 9:52 am
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No matter what her state of mind was she had the baby in a hospital if her state of mind was questionable they would have picked it up!

She had choices......
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David Libra

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 9:57 am
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^ Well, it's pretty evident they didn't. Perhaps they should have.

I have to say, we were very lucky to be able to stay for five days at the hospital after the birth (and that I was allowed to stay each night to help out). Kicking mothers out 48 hours afterwards is way too soon. Perhaps if it was standard policy to keep mothers in for up to a week, psychological issues would be more noticeable and situations like this could be prevented.

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 9:59 am
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1061 wrote:
No matter what her state of mind was she had the baby in a hospital if her state of mind was questionable they would have picked it up!

She had choices......


With respect "no".

It can be held together as well. I've seen quite psychotic people guard their mental state quite well. Sometimes it's postpartum psychosis or psychotic depression that develops after the event.

Neither of us know at this time.

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 10:04 am
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David wrote:
^ Well, it's pretty evident they didn't. Perhaps they should have.

I have to say, we were very lucky to be able to stay for five days at the hospital after the birth (and that I was allowed to stay each night to help out). Kicking mothers out 48 hours afterwards is way too soon. Perhaps if it was standard policy to keep mothers in for up to a week, psychological issues would be more noticeable and situations like this could be prevented.


Our first was born in a birthing center at Monash Medical Centre where we had our own room. Stayed 24 hours, no doctors but they were available if needed

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 10:55 am
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Shouldn't we just treat all parents as suspect, take the children away from them to be reared by well-meaning bureaucrats and have them returned to their families (only if the families are by then thought fit) when they're about, say, 40?
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 11:07 am
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Now you're talking. Laughing
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 12:52 pm
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watt price tully wrote:

The ignorant use of terms like Wokko was using such as if she 's just using depression as an excuse, it makes him sick (yet another example of Wokko's attitude to women)...is not useful to apply to this person's situation.


I said how do you STOP someone using depression as an easy out when there are hordes of feminist idiots handing the excuse to murderers on a platter. I wonder if a man suffering depression/psychosis/mental illness would get even a mention of sympathy or understanding? Where were all these ridiculous excuses when that guy spear gunned his kids? Or the guy who drove them into a lake? Or the guy who threw his kid off the bridge? I didn't hear (and quite rightly) any mention of "Oh, maybe they're mentally ill/suffering a psychotic episode/depressed. Because it's all a bullshit smokescreen to protect women who murder their newborn babies.

Also, I'll put this nicely even though you don't deserve it, how about you stop the bullshit personal attacks against me that apart from being wholly inaccurate and unnecessary do no more than diminish you and your argument.
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 2:18 pm
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In fairness, there were some of us who felt sympathy for Robert Farquharson and other men who killed their children.

http://magpies.net/nick/bb/viewtopic.php?t=65776

Helen Garner, perhaps Australia's most respect female author, has also talked about the difficulties of publicly empathising with child murderers:

http://www.smh.com.au/entertainment/books/robert-farquharson-case-struck-author-helen-garner-with-a-terrible-gong-of-horror-20140812-102jqn.html

There may be double standards in some places, but the majority of people organising a lynch mob in the aforementioned cases would be doing the same here.

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 2:24 pm
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David wrote:
In fairness, there were some of us who felt sympathy for Robert Farquharson and other men who killed their children. Helen Garner, perhaps Australia's most respect female author, is one of them:

http://www.smh.com.au/entertainment/books/robert-farquharson-case-struck-author-helen-garner-with-a-terrible-gong-of-horror-20140812-102jqn.html


And I don't get that. I'd like to see that bastard hung drawn and quartered for what he put those kids through. Drowning is apparently a horrible horrible way to die, and drowned by your own father.

This woman dropped her son down a drain. Down a drain. By the sound of it where she thought he would not be found. You have a new born son, do you not feel a twinge at the thought of it? She had a choice. She could have left him some where safe, some where anonymous. Some where, where he would not suffer and awful, lonely death.

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