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Kingswood
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not an easy thing to do, unless you actually stop thinking about him. otherwise you'll be constantly wondering whether he is missing you or thinking about you  |
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yadster#13 
Joined: 25 Jul 2007
Location: Sunny seaford
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thats the way girl good luck with it 
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Who'sOnO'Bree 
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Location: Kilsyth
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I feel for you JJJ, I've been there - not for 6 years, but long enough. Be strong and muster up all the Will Power you've got. Mr Right will sweep you off your feet one day.
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mel_kay39
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Joined: 28 Aug 2007
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yeah, this one's kind of a hard one.
On the one hand, he seems like he's putting in some effort calling you four times and remembering to buy you chocolates, and on the other, he's been stringing you along for six years. Sounds like it's time to throw down the gauntlet, so to speak, stop playing games and just ask him straight out, "do you like me?" or "where is this going?" because if you don't, I don't see things changing in your favour. If he says no, he's not ready to commit but he likes your company, then there's your answer. He's not gonna be boyfriend material.
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JacJacJacqui 
Joined: 13 Jun 2008
Location: B-town represent
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Ok so I need advice ASAP. I got an email from said guy this morning saying "Ok it's obvious you've cracked it with me..? Take it you don't want the chocolates either.."
What should I say? My mum said that I should say "You know where I live if you want to see me". What do you think?
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luvdids 
Joined: 22 Mar 2008
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Why don't you just say you haven't cracked it with him, you've just decided you're sick of being strung along, it's obviously going nowhere and you have better things to spend your time and energy on. Tell him he's a good friend blah blah blah, haven't cracked it, just woken up a bit.
Then give him my address for the chocolates |
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JacJacJacqui
Joined: 13 Jun 2008
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| luvdids wrote: | Why don't you just say you haven't cracked it with him, you've just decided you're sick of being strung along, it's obviously going nowhere and you have better things to spend your time and energy on. Tell him he's a good friend blah blah blah, haven't cracked it, just woken up a bit.
Then give him my address for the chocolates |
Actually that sounds like the perfect thing to say, thanks!
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luvdids
Joined: 22 Mar 2008
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No problems. Might have mentioned once before that I am..... ahem... 'experienced'??!! lol. Been there before, it's hard but it's gotta be done.
I'll forward my address for the chocolates!! |
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John Wren 
"Look after the game. It means so much to so many."
Joined: 15 Jul 2007
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| JacJacJacqui wrote: | Ok so I need advice ASAP. I got an email from said guy this morning saying "Ok it's obvious you've cracked it with me..? Take it you don't want the chocolates either.."
What should I say? My mum said that I should say "You know where I live if you want to see me". What do you think? |
turn it around and ask why he thinks that.
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leonmagic
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| if you keep putting out why would he change? |
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JacJacJacqui
Joined: 13 Jun 2008
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^^Obviously.. Who said I put out? That stopped a long time ago.. Durr.. 
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JacJacJacqui
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DONE AND DUSTED
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John Wren
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so what happened to the chocs?
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CarringbushCigar 
Joined: 15 Nov 2007
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| Im free for dinner and always have chocolates at my place |
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JacJacJacqui
Joined: 13 Jun 2008
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| jmcp wrote: | | so what happened to the chocs? |
Dunno.. He can give them to the chick he was all over at his party for all I care..
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