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sherrife
Victorian Socialists - people before profit
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So, let's do a hypothetical and not use 'invasion of a country'.....say a person was invaded personally many years ago. Do we just accept the word sorry? Or do we seek justice even if it is many many years later? |
Lets imagine something even more concrete. If a woman is raped, does she have the right 40 years later to confront her attacker if she finds him and feels strong enough to do so? Or does she have to "move on" without an apology, without "asking for greedy compensation" from her oppressor and just give up her "unhealthy obsession" with justice? _________________ I would be ashamed to admit that I had risen from the ranks. When I rise it will be with the ranks... - Eugene Debs |
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stui magpie
Prepare for the worst, hope for the best.
Joined: 03 May 2005 Location: In flagrante delicto
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Of course she has the right. That's completely different to spending the past 40 years obsessing about confronting him.
By letting it go and moving forward, she doesn't have to forget the pain and the other emptions, she's just not letting them rule her anymore.
If she'd let it go, she would be ably to confront him without having her emotions raw. He would no longer have a hold over her.
Try a different example. Someones partner dies. The person loved their partner very much and is understandably shattered.
Should they spend the rest of their life in mourning for their lost partner or get on with their life after a period of adjustment? If they find another partner does that make the love they felt for their previous partner any less or the pain they felt when they died any less?
Different examples, yes. But the principle is they same. Everyone can choose whether to let the past rule them, or whether to simply remember the lessons. _________________ Every dead body on Mt Everest was once a highly motivated person, so maybe just calm the **** down. |
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nomadjack
Joined: 27 Apr 2006 Location: Essendon
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"I can accept the fact that the young generation...is not to blame. It was their fathers and grandfathers. But until they own up, they'll always be a pariah nation,"
This quote sums it up pretty succinctly for me. Don't see how you can argue with it. |
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spoljar
Joined: 16 Mar 2004 Location: Lynbrook
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sherrife wrote: | Proud Pies wrote: |
So, let's do a hypothetical and not use 'invasion of a country'.....say a person was invaded personally many years ago. Do we just accept the word sorry? Or do we seek justice even if it is many many years later? |
Lets imagine something even more concrete. If a woman is raped, does she have the right 40 years later to confront her attacker if she finds him and feels strong enough to do so? |
Would this be during the mediation process between the rapist and victim after the rapist spends enough time within the "institutionalised care" system??? |
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Proud Pies
Joined: 22 Feb 2003 Location: Knox-ish
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*ignore* _________________ Jacqui © Proud Pies 2003 and beyond |
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Proud Pies
Joined: 22 Feb 2003 Location: Knox-ish
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spoljar wrote: | sherrife wrote: | Proud Pies wrote: |
So, let's do a hypothetical and not use 'invasion of a country'.....say a person was invaded personally many years ago. Do we just accept the word sorry? Or do we seek justice even if it is many many years later? |
Lets imagine something even more concrete. If a woman is raped, does she have the right 40 years later to confront her attacker if she finds him and feels strong enough to do so? |
Would this be during the mediation process between the rapist and victim after the rapist spends enough time within the "institutionalised care" system??? |
in my hypothetical, no police reporting of the incident, but an apology from the rapist when confronted many years later.........
is that enough? _________________ Jacqui © Proud Pies 2003 and beyond |
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Zakal
One Game, One Club, One Jumper
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I dont know the answer to this question, hence asking it, so don't take it as an antagonizing one, but returning to the Europe example.
Of a few of the bigger historical invasions to affect that continent...how many national apologies are on record as having being made?
Roman invasion of the known world? (going back a long way, but if the argument is being run that the Australian government has had 200years, then the amount of time seems relevant in some way)
Gothic invasion of the Roman empire?
English invasions of France?
French Napoleonic invasions of most of Europe?
....we are entering a pretty similar time period now....
Prussian invasion of Denmark?
Prussian invasion of Austria-Hungary?
Prussian invasion of France?
German invasion of Belgium?
German invasion of Poland?
German invasion of France?
German invasion of Russia?
...any German-invaded country
Soviet invasion of Czechoslovakia?
Soviet invasion of Hungary?
Soviet invasion of Finland?
....any Soviet invaded country
Again, i ask this question in all seriousness, because if there is a consistent pattern of responsibility, apology and forgiveness in these examples, then the current state of the European Union suggests that this is indeed the model for all countries in similar situations to follow because it is one of the most invasion-rich continents on earth...with virtually no country completely free of it. |
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spoljar
Joined: 16 Mar 2004 Location: Lynbrook
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Proud Pies wrote: | spoljar wrote: | sherrife wrote: | Proud Pies wrote: |
So, let's do a hypothetical and not use 'invasion of a country'.....say a person was invaded personally many years ago. Do we just accept the word sorry? Or do we seek justice even if it is many many years later? |
Lets imagine something even more concrete. If a woman is raped, does she have the right 40 years later to confront her attacker if she finds him and feels strong enough to do so? |
Would this be during the mediation process between the rapist and victim after the rapist spends enough time within the "institutionalised care" system??? |
in my hypothetical, no police reporting of the incident, but an apology from the rapist when confronted many years later.........
is that enough? |
PP - My response to Sherriff was a little more tongue in cheek as he had some very interesting views regarding this issue in the "10 year old that got raped by 9 men" thread.
My view regarding rapists is that their apologies would mean very little to a victim and do nothing to improve their lives. I would keep a rapist in jail for as long as possible so atleast a victim knows the monster will not be able to do the same to others.
Also rather than worrying about the rapist and their rights, I would heap more money on the victim by providing better support structures such as counselling to help them overcome their ordeal.
I guess with regards to the question, what I am still trying to work out is:
1. Who do the Aboriginals want an apology from exactly?
2. What do they believe they will gain from it?
3. Would an apology in any way improve their lives? |
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joffa corfe
PREMIERS 2010
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spoljar wrote: | Proud Pies wrote: | spoljar wrote: | sherrife wrote: | Proud Pies wrote: |
So, let's do a hypothetical and not use 'invasion of a country'.....say a person was invaded personally many years ago. Do we just accept the word sorry? Or do we seek justice even if it is many many years later? |
Lets imagine something even more concrete. If a woman is raped, does she have the right 40 years later to confront her attacker if she finds him and feels strong enough to do so? |
Would this be during the mediation process between the rapist and victim after the rapist spends enough time within the "institutionalised care" system??? |
in my hypothetical, no police reporting of the incident, but an apology from the rapist when confronted many years later.........
is that enough? |
I guess with regards to the question, what I am still trying to work out is:
1. Who do the Aboriginals want an apology from exactly?
2. What do they believe they will gain from it?
3. Would an apology in any way improve their lives? |
Typical Narre Warren trailer park bogan trash..welcome to my ignore list you ignorant idiot!! _________________ Football is Greatness
http://youtu.be/tJwoKbPOsQE |
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spoljar
Joined: 16 Mar 2004 Location: Lynbrook
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joffa corfe wrote: | spoljar wrote: | Proud Pies wrote: | spoljar wrote: | sherrife wrote: | Proud Pies wrote: |
So, let's do a hypothetical and not use 'invasion of a country'.....say a person was invaded personally many years ago. Do we just accept the word sorry? Or do we seek justice even if it is many many years later? |
Lets imagine something even more concrete. If a woman is raped, does she have the right 40 years later to confront her attacker if she finds him and feels strong enough to do so? |
Would this be during the mediation process between the rapist and victim after the rapist spends enough time within the "institutionalised care" system??? |
in my hypothetical, no police reporting of the incident, but an apology from the rapist when confronted many years later.........
is that enough? |
I guess with regards to the question, what I am still trying to work out is:
1. Who do the Aboriginals want an apology from exactly?
2. What do they believe they will gain from it?
3. Would an apology in any way improve their lives? |
Typical Narre Warren trailer park bogan trash..welcome to my ignore list you ignorant idiot!! |
They are perfectly valid questions. Seeing how you are the expert on Aboriginals, I guess you should be the one most qualified to answer them.
Also are you implying that I live in a trailor park? Where the F#$K do you live? I work damn hard for 80-100 Hours a week for my home and to support my family. I require no free rides.
OK, Mr King of Collingwood, Mr King of Community Work. |
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Zakal
One Game, One Club, One Jumper
Joined: 04 Nov 2005
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joffa corfe wrote: |
Typical Narre Warren trailer park bogan trash..welcome to my ignore list you ignorant idiot!! |
...little over the top don't you think Joff? |
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David
I dare you to try
Joined: 27 Jul 2003 Location: Andromeda
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spoljar wrote: | I guess with regards to the question, what I am still trying to work out is:
1. Who do the Aboriginals want an apology from exactly?
2. What do they believe they will gain from it?
3. Would an apology in any way improve their lives? |
I would be interested in hearing some answers to these questions, although I guess the best thing would be to pose them to actual members of Australia's indigenous communities.
I genuinely believe these questions need to be asked. Not because there is anything particularly horrible about our Prime Minister apologising for past wrongs committed by the Australian Government, but rather because this emphasis that is placed on the need for a formal apology is a symptom of a greater problem. I see it as (yes, this is just how I see it - it is not necessarily a true or valid opinion) a deflection from a far more important issue - i.e., why so many Indigenous people have such poor standards of living, and why there is still such a cultural divide between Aboriginal Australia and everybody else. _________________ All watched over by machines of loving grace
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nomadjack
Joined: 27 Apr 2006 Location: Essendon
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Don't really see how the examples you put forward are relevant Zakal. Firstly, they almost all refer to conflict between nation-states which was clearly not the same situation we are talking about. In this sense more applicable examples would be cases where nation-states have colonized other peoples, of which there are plenty of examples of apologies being put forward, eg 1993 US apology for invading Hawai in 1910; Canadian government apology and reparations paid to Innuit people in 1992.
I would even argue that German government apologies and reparations paid to Jewish victims of the Holocaust constitute a more relevant and applicable example to the Australian indigenous situation than the cases you raise
Secondly, and more importantly, in all of the examples you raise the original transgressor was eventually defeated and the pre-existing order was restored. In many of these cases formal apologies for actions and restorative reparations were included as part of the treaty arrangements.
The argument you make about the European Union is an interesting one. If you read much of the internation relations literature on apologies you will see that most theorists argue that Germany has been accepted in Europe by past enemies because of the lengths it has gone to to apologise and atone for the behaviour of the Nazi regime and to draw a distinct line between pre and post war Germany. Japan is often criticized for not making the same effort.
If anyone is interested there are some good points made in the following articles:
http://www.slate.com/id/1066/
http://www.dartmouth.edu/~jlind/research/LindAPSA2005.pdf
http://books.google.com/books?id=FP7rnBGFz8IC&pg=PA99&lpg=PA99&dq=german+apologies+for+invasions&source=web&ots=XVwPYzraKQ&sig=76cHK4cCH0NvRL_TdbbAY1mF218
Valid questions Spoljar.
1. From the Australian government on behalf of past governments and as representatives of the Australian people.
2. For many indigenous people symbolic recognition that wrongs were committed is an important precondition for putting the past behind them and moving on. Our failure to admit to any wrongdoing is paramount to saying what happened was acceptable and not that important. If you and I were friends and I did something that was a major slight on you, would you just accept this without demanding an apology and expect the relationship to continue as before?
3. If it lets them get on with their lives perhaps. The point is though that that's not for you or me to decide. The person deserving and receiving the apology is the one who gets to decide that.
Again, the quote I posted earlier sums it up for me:
"I can accept the fact that the young generation...is not to blame. It was their fathers and grandfathers. But until they own up, they'll always be a pariah nation,"
Who are we to dispute this? |
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nomadjack
Joined: 27 Apr 2006 Location: Essendon
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David wrote: | spoljar wrote: | I guess with regards to the question, what I am still trying to work out is:
1. Who do the Aboriginals want an apology from exactly?
2. What do they believe they will gain from it?
3. Would an apology in any way improve their lives? |
I would be interested in hearing some answers to these questions, although I guess the best thing would be to pose them to actual members of Australia's indigenous communities.
I genuinely believe these questions need to be asked. Not because there is anything particularly horrible about our Prime Minister apologising for past wrongs committed by the Australian Government, but rather because the emphasis placed on the need for a formal apology is a symptom of a greater problem, in my opinion. |
David these questions have been posed and answered for the past 20 years. If you are genuiely interested in the indigenous perspective all you need to do is google and read any of the thousands of statements that have been made. |
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Proud Pies
Joined: 22 Feb 2003 Location: Knox-ish
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joffa corfe wrote: | spoljar wrote: | Proud Pies wrote: | spoljar wrote: | sherrife wrote: | Proud Pies wrote: |
So, let's do a hypothetical and not use 'invasion of a country'.....say a person was invaded personally many years ago. Do we just accept the word sorry? Or do we seek justice even if it is many many years later? |
Lets imagine something even more concrete. If a woman is raped, does she have the right 40 years later to confront her attacker if she finds him and feels strong enough to do so? |
Would this be during the mediation process between the rapist and victim after the rapist spends enough time within the "institutionalised care" system??? |
in my hypothetical, no police reporting of the incident, but an apology from the rapist when confronted many years later.........
is that enough? |
I guess with regards to the question, what I am still trying to work out is:
1. Who do the Aboriginals want an apology from exactly?
2. What do they believe they will gain from it?
3. Would an apology in any way improve their lives? |
Typical Narre Warren trailer park bogan trash..welcome to my ignore list you ignorant idiot!! |
what the hell was wrong with these questions? _________________ Jacqui © Proud Pies 2003 and beyond |
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