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HAL
Please don't shout at me - I can't help it.
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What are these kids there being made to be there and they're acting out there's not much he or she can do some parents want to try and control it all and want it their way ? |
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stui magpie
Prepare for the worst, hope for the best.
Joined: 03 May 2005 Location: In flagrante delicto
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The Prototype wrote: | think positive wrote: | How did you react? Are you still involved? What do the kids and parents say about it? Will they still allow you to be involved and can you learn from the players? Keep your head high mate, sounds like the club has been pretty insensitive considering it's a voluntary position, maybe be the bigger man, and be gracious. Cheers, hope it works out in the end. |
I was given time to think about whether I'd stay involved and learn, or give it up they don't want to lose me at the club, they felt I was inexperienced as a coach and supposedly the kids were bored they were all having fun there was a moment when it wasn't but otherwise they enjoyed it.
I have a few kids there being made to be there and they're acting out, there's not much I can do, some parents want to try and control it all and want it their way. So I dunno.
I am not sure what my next move is, I will be helping out at the gate again, mainly 'cause I want to go to the footy. |
My 2c for what it's worth would be to try to stay involved in the Auskick. If they've put some ex players in the coaching gig and bumped you, you could actually learn something too by staying involved. Volunteer support is always needed in sporting clubs.
If the coaches behave like douches toward you, walk away but make sure you tell the club why. _________________ Every dead body on Mt Everest was once a highly motivated person, so maybe just calm the **** down. |
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think positive
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David wrote: | See my comment in the other thread (not sure why you felt the need to post this twice). It doesn't matter if anyone else was "outraged" by your comment. It was a clear breach of the rules and was moderated accordingly, as any off-topic personal attacks would be. |
As per our conversation today, I'm sorry, shouldn't have taken it out on you personally. Cheers Jo xx _________________ You cant fix stupid, turns out you cant quarantine it either! |
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David
I dare you to try
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No worries, Jo, I appreciate it. _________________ All watched over by machines of loving grace |
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The Prototype
Paint my face with a good-for-nothin smile.
Joined: 23 Apr 2003 Location: Hobart, Tasmania
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Thanks TP and Stui, I think I am going to try and stay involved somehow, parents have given me grief since it began so I am a bit worried about showing up there not the coach anymore. I have said we're taking the gear there so they can set it up, I'm not taking it back home. I may give this session a miss, just let them get started and then maybe go and watch next week. _________________ Šavāgé
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stui magpie
Prepare for the worst, hope for the best.
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Don't go and watch, that just creates the wrong impression. The parents see new coaches and you over in the background. Speak to the club and ask if the new coach(s) are happy to have you as an assistant, you'll defer to them as head coach(s) but you have a level of official status.
Then you walk in like you still own the joint, rock up to the new coaches and say"So coach, what are we doing and where do you want me?"
parents of kids at sporting clinics can be dickwads, they all think that their kid is special and different and the coach should be able to see that. _________________ Every dead body on Mt Everest was once a highly motivated person, so maybe just calm the **** down. |
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think positive
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Good advice _________________ You cant fix stupid, turns out you cant quarantine it either! |
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The Prototype
Paint my face with a good-for-nothin smile.
Joined: 23 Apr 2003 Location: Hobart, Tasmania
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I spoke to the president today, well...after dad had a go at him, they don't want me to go Longman and Chivers know I will be there to learn to run the program. they were worried about the organising since I was only a young coach.
They said go whenever I want to, they'll know I am there and stuff. I am not going tomorrow. _________________ Šavāgé
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think positive
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The Prototype wrote: | I spoke to the president today, well...after dad had a go at him, they don't want me to go Longman and Chivers know I will be there to learn to run the program. they were worried about the organising since I was only a young coach.
They said go whenever I want to, they'll know I am there and stuff. I am not going tomorrow. |
Why not? _________________ You cant fix stupid, turns out you cant quarantine it either! |
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The Prototype
Paint my face with a good-for-nothin smile.
Joined: 23 Apr 2003 Location: Hobart, Tasmania
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King Monkey
Joined: 15 Apr 2009 Location: On a journey to seek the scriptures of enlightenment....
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Something that may work for you Davage - perhaps suggest to the "main coaches", that they send you over 2 kids at a time, separate from the main training drills, for you to actually teach them the mechanics of kicking and handballing.
This can be quite difficult to do when trying to keep training drills flowing - it can become a bit of "great kick Johnny", when you really want to stop and tell Johnny that he needs to hold the ball like this and drop it straight (or whatever....).
This has worked well for our group currently playing under 10's - a little bit of extra attention from an "assistant coach" has done wonders for some of the kids that really struggled when they started. _________________ "I am a great sage, equal of heaven.
Grow stick, grow.
Fly cloud, fly.
Oh you are a dee-mon, I love to fiiight." |
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King Monkey
Joined: 15 Apr 2009 Location: On a journey to seek the scriptures of enlightenment....
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No more Parking on Victoria St!!
When the F did this happen??
Had an appointment today at the Eye & Ear for the 4 year old, had to park in a designated carpark, the machine told us our stay was for 2 hours & 2 minutes, the fee was, wait for it, I can't bring myself to type this......
$55 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Fifty fkn five fkn dollars for fkn 2 fkn hours and 2 fkn minutes faaaaaa.........rrrrrrrrrr...........kkkkkkkkkkk!!!!!!!!!!!! _________________ "I am a great sage, equal of heaven.
Grow stick, grow.
Fly cloud, fly.
Oh you are a dee-mon, I love to fiiight." |
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watt price tully
Joined: 15 May 2007
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stui magpie
Prepare for the worst, hope for the best.
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King Monkey wrote: | No more Parking on Victoria St!!
When the F did this happen??
Had an appointment today at the Eye & Ear for the 4 year old, had to park in a designated carpark, the machine told us our stay was for 2 hours & 2 minutes, the fee was, wait for it, I can't bring myself to type this......
$55 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Fifty fkn five fkn dollars for fkn 2 fkn hours and 2 fkn minutes faaaaaa.........rrrrrrrrrr...........kkkkkkkkkkk!!!!!!!!!!!! |
No frikken way. Serious? _________________ Every dead body on Mt Everest was once a highly motivated person, so maybe just calm the **** down. |
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think positive
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OMG
Chuck away the key, ****tards _________________ You cant fix stupid, turns out you cant quarantine it either! |
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